I turn away in tears, no longer able to watch
the near-skeletal figure on the treadmill across the gym pounding out mile
after joyless mile.
I am upset not just because of how thin this
individual is, and the potentially-fatal strain their body is under, but also because
I am aware how much someone is inevitably hurting, emotionally, by the time
they reach this point.
Most of all, I am upset because I feel unable
to help.
How many of us have been in similar
situations, where we’ve encountered someone clearly suffering from an eating
disorder, with or without exercise addition or other mental health issues, and
felt that we could not intervene?
Is it a lack of expertise that is holding us
back? Or the feeling that it is not our place to say something? With denial a
major feature of eating disorders, are we simply afraid that the individual
will turn down our offer of help?
We can’t force a grown adult to seek treatment
against their will. At least not unless they are an immediate harm to
themselves or others. But we can certainly offer help.
And while we’re considering whether or not it’s
our place to say something, or our responsibility to intervene, we should take
a moment to put the taboo of eating disorders aside.
If this was an individual standing on a
bridge, ready to jump, I wouldn’t be concerned that my offer of help was
untimely or out of place. Nor would I worry that I might make matters worse. I
probably wouldn’t even think twice before dialling 999.
If I was a barman and a customer was clearly
over-indulging in my goods, to the point that their health and wellbeing were
clearly in danger, I would be legally obliged to stop serving them.
Why does the same not apply to those
exercising to the point of self-destruction?
Why are eating disorders so different?
Not all
eating disorders are visible
And this is just with anorexia that has
progressed to the point that it is physically obvious! If we can’t support with
these, how can we even consider supporting the large number of individuals who
are engaging in destructive eating behaviours that have no obvious physical
signs.
Most individuals suffering from Bulamia, for
example, maintain a constant weight, but the binging and purging practices
which characterise the illness also have severe physical and mental
consequences for the individual.
Those with early stage anorexia may also not
display any excessive weight loss or physical changes. Particularly in a
distance running environment, where thinness is common, the individual’s health
may already be severely compromised by the time their illness becomes
physically evident.
Changes in mood, feelings and behaviours may
be better early warning signs in these cases.
A comprehensive list of warning signs can be
found on the website of
Beat (the British Eating Disorder Charity).
Intervention
is not easy, but it’s unquestionably necessary
Did you know that anorexia nervosa has the
highest mortality rate among all mental illnesses and psychiatric disorders? People
aged 15-24 years with anorexia have 10 times the risk of dying compared to
their age-matched peers. Approximately half of these deaths are sudden cardiac
deaths.
In the US, one person dies as the direct
result of their eating disorder every 62 minutes! We don’t have similar figures
for the UK or Ireland, but death rates are high and sudden death is a real
possibility!
Add to that the fact that the earlier an
eating disorder is treated, the greater the chance of recovery. Oh, and that
many individuals suffering for an eating disorder often do not realise the
extent of their destructive behaviour, and the importance of intervening
becomes a little bit more obvious.
Many athletes, when sharing their eating
disorder stories, will mention a trigger point to them seeking help – often
somebody else intervening – or a wish that someone had said something sooner.
Eating disorders are mental illnesses. They
very, very rarely improve without professional treatment, and early treatment
significantly increases the chance of recovery!
So, while we’re worrying whether now is the
best time, or wondering what the right thing to say is, there’s someone who
just needs us to say something.
Denial
an issue
Denial is a major characteristic of eating
disorders. If you suggest to an individual that you think they aren’t eating
enough or are too thin, then the chances are that they have an answer for that.
They are likely to explain it away.
In a distance running context this is even
more likely, where extremely low body weight is not only highly accepted, but
often expected.
The general advice when offering support to
someone with an eating disorders is to approach in a place which is private,
quiet and comfortable for them. Avoid approaching at meal times, or in any
other environment in which they may be more uncomfortable or anxious that they
normally are.
You should listen and communicate
non-judgementally. Ask the individual about how they are feeling, and care
about their answers. The Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) manual recommends that
you focus on specific behaviours that concern you and the underlying emotional
distress they may be feeling, rather than weight, food or appearance.
There is the possibility that your sensitive,
non-judgemental approach is brushed off, or treated with defensiveness or even
anger. But that doesn’t mean that your conversation has not been worth the
effort. The individual may need time before accepting help.
There is even a chance that they are relieved to
have the opportunity to talk about their feelings. They may even have been waiting
for someone to reach out. It’s just as important to be prepared for a positive
response to your offer of help.
First
steps
Both Beat and
Bodywhys,
the Irish Eating Disorders Association, recommend that visiting the GP is the
first step on the road to treatment. However, with stretched healthcare
resources, it is not without its drawbacks!
B-eat has an
excellent resource on their website to prepare individuals for the reluctance to refer they may
experience. It has advice and prepared answers to possible misunderstandings
they may encounter.
No individual who feels they have an issue
should come away from a GP appointment without a referral for a specialist eating
disorder assessment. They especially shouldn’t be told that their eating
disorder is not yet severe enough.
It is also worth noting that while many
dietitians will have some awareness of and training in eating disorders,
anorexia and bulimia are mental illnesses, and will not be resolved by dietary
intervention alone.
Treatment
Once an individual has been assessed, depending
on the stage of the eating disorder and the severity of the weight loss,
inpatient treatment may be required.
National Institute for Health and Care
Excellence (NICE) guidelines recommend outpatient psychological support
involving Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), psychotherapy or other
appropriate therapy or counselling delivered by an eating-disorder specialist.
For those under 18, family therapy should also
be recommended. Exercise may be contraindicated, particularly in the early
stages of treatment.
The Beat and Bodywhy helplines both give
advice not just for those suffering with an eating disorder, but also for those
supporting them. Parents, friends and, potentially, coaches will play an
important role in recovery, which may take some time.
In
summary
If you know someone who may be suffering from
an eating disorder, approach them in an empathetic and non-judgemental way.
Yes, it will be a difficult conversation, but it may just be the one that
enables them to seek the support that they need.
The Beat and Bodywhys helplines can provide
advice on how to raise the issue with an individual, who may or may not respond
in a receptive way. But don’t give up hope.
The GP is the first port-of-call on a long
road to recovery. No individual should be turned away because they are “not yet
thin enough”, or that they are “just going through a phase”.
Early intervention is crucial! With the right
support recovery is not only possible, but likely.
If that was me on the treadmill, slogging
through my third gym session of the day, I might not fully appreciate the offer
of help from a caring, non-judgemental stranger. It might not be what I want.
But it might just be what I need.